Psychopathy is probably the most famous of the dark triad personalities. It is one that frequently appears in the media. Psychopaths have no empathy or remorse. They are often without feeling, which is the scary part, as
it means that nothing disturbs them. They are prone to pathological lying, are extremely charming, need stimulation, have poor impulse control, are callous, are grandiose, manipulative, and live a parasitic lifestyle.
Psychopaths, if they are not in prison, often rise to the top of the ranks in the business, finance, political, legal or medical professions. Their craving for power, and lack of sensitivity and empathy, makes them particularly frightening. They are the ones that are in prison for murder, whose modus operandi is to hide the bodies of their victim so that they are continuously on a power trip. When they aren’t overt criminals, they can wreak havoc in senior positions in the workforce, crushing subordinates in their desire for control.
Those with a dark triad personality are great at superficial relationships due to their charm. The following characteristics are normal:
- Love bombing: this is when the person with a dark triad personality will throw out all the stops. They may be overtly affectionate, often making the other person feel so loved, like they have never felt so before. As they do not feel empathy, the love bombing is a way to
get their ego stroked and fed.
- Mimicking: people that have the dark triad personality traits will often mimic other people’s emotions as they do not know how to show and feel empathy.
- Gaslighting: this is when the person with a dark triad personality will deny the reality of a situation. It has their victims questioning their reality, often feeling like they are going insane. They do this to damage the person’s self-esteem so that they feel like they are going crazy.
- Exhausting victims: dealing with somebody with a dark triad personality is exhausting as it often feels like you are jumping through hoops.
- Rage: while the person with the dark triad will often feel emotionless, if their ego is not stroked, they may fly into rage.
- Repetitive behaviour: a person who has a dark triad personality will repeat their style of behaviour with others. Without help, they will continue charming and then discarding their victims.